We're going to a way-over-the-top wedding at the end of the month. its a night wedding and black-tie optional. We're struggling with what my son should wear. He's not in the wedding party but will be handing out programs. I guess it feels like it'd be easiest to have him wear a tux...he doesn't have a full-suit (and the shoes are a problem) and he'll probably destroy any suit he did have over 6 hours of partying and dancing at the wedding (and tux rental places count on having to clean them). But is it acceptable for a boy of that age?